This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt

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I love how you asked ‘how will you spend your time?’. Because its implied we’re not spending it with family. Like the This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt moreover I will buy this people who cry to childfree people they would be lonely, however they themselves are not spending time with their parents. The hypocrisy. I’m CF I’m gonna spend it with my cat and I’m planning on getting another degree Nobody out the there for me. I spend my time working, traveling around the world, urbex, mountain climbing and hiking, and playing various instruments. Life of a true loner. I never wanted to be pregnant or give birth, I don’t have the patience, and don’t want to pass on any trauma from my childhood. i would argue you should have a reason to have children, not having children is the status quo you should have a reason to change it. why have children just because?

This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt

Life is great. We both work, but we make great fun plans for travel, outings, etc. Financial decisions revolve around us alone. There were so, so many reasons. I just could not bring myself to bring a child into this world. It doesn’t seem like a good place. I knew I would worry myself to death and would also not enjoy the This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt moreover I will buy this monotony that is parenthood. I always thought I’d have kids – was sure of it really – until I made the choice not to, and then I felt so, so free. My time is spent on various hobbies, which I have time to get good at (music/physical activity/languages). I go to school and am always learning something new. I travel, host dinner parties and wine and cheese parties, etc., and relax, dance, and garden. I am connecting with my inner child and doing all the things she loves to do, and I am, in a way, reparenting her (me). I absolutely love my life and feel like I am thriving, and I have joy and the wonder of a child. The biggest thing that it comes down to, is I basically can’t afford it. I can barely afford myself, let alone a mini-me, let alone afford a good place to raise a family. Sure, my area is pretty nice, low crime for the most part, but rent is easily $2100/mo and up.

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(That and I’ve been Asexual as long as I can remember, never understood the This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt moreover I will buy this hype or excitement for sex, I’ve never had much interest. Why is it such a “make or break” thing for some people?) I have a genetic condition that I don’t want to pass on to my kids. My condition could also cause problems for me down the line which would mean my kids might need to take care of me I have three different lifelong illnesses. I don’t want something to potentially happen to the child if I have a seizure or something. Also children are expensive. No kids here. Grew up in a dysfunctional family, and savor the peace and quiet. Sometimes it’s lonely, sometimes I wonder what I could be missing out on. However, whenever I talk to people who do have kids, they get lonely too, they seem stressed, and their experiences aren’t all that unique. Kids are all “above average” and have their own talents, hell I was one of those kids once! They just grow up to be regular adults like the rest of us, most of the time. I just weighed the pros and cons of having kids, and for me/husband, the “cons” outweighed the “pros.” That’s all. If you have lots of money and a reliable network of people to help, you’ll probably enjoy the experience. I don’t have those things, so I enjoy my free time, extra money and less stress. I’ll spend my time doing whatever I want. Which does sometimes include hanging out with my friends and their tiny humans. I adore children and I try to go for “fun aunt” vibes. Hopefully a couple will visit when I shrivel into a trembling prune. We just don’t want them. My whole life I could tell that my parents WANTED us and loved everything about being parents. I also saw other kids/parents where you could tell that was not the case. After growing up…realized I’m the later -> thus not going to have them. “Why don’t you have any tatoos?” I just don’t want them. With kids the stakes are too high to half-ass it if you’re not competely into the idea in the first place.

2) cost….some 40-50 year old: “Once the This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt moreover I will buy this kids are out the house I can’t wait to spend all this money on myself”…..na ima do that now before my knees stop working I don’t know, it just doesn’t appeal to me at all. I don’t want to go through the ordeal of pregnancy, childbirth and then having to devote my life to a child. I’m annoyed enough by my cat sometimes. Also a child is difficult even if you want it. Two of my friends recently had children after having both really wanted to have kids and they are EXHAUSTED. There are so many unexpected struggles and it was really hard for them. I like kids in general but have no desire to have them especially in a health care system that would rather see me die then provide help if needed also, I grew up witnessing financial struggle and limited resources. I saw a relationship based on requirement and there was very little happiness. I can say I may be open to adopting one day but that’s if I have decided to live more sedentary then I am now.

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I value my alone time and would become frustrated very quickly if I didn’t have access to it. I want to focus on a career and building a life for myself and my partner. I want the This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt moreover I will buy this financial freedom to pursue things I enjoy for the sake of enjoying them. I hate public attention / embarrassment/ second hand embarrassment. I wouldn’t be able to provide them with the parenting they deserve. I like kids I just dont want them around me 24/7 365 I’m not anti-child so much as anti-natalist. But I feel so many people have a negative association with anti natalism when, for me at least, it is out of compassion and empathy. That’s what I do and because I want to do that, well that’s the reason for not having kids. Of course it is more complex, timing, partner, money, etc. The main reason probably is a simple “because I just don’t want to have any”. I’m not patient and after a while i feel like I’d be a little mean and i wouldn’t want to put a kid through that. Im good with other kids but i feel like it’d be a different story if i had my own.
I don’t think I’d be a good mother, I don’t want to pass down my mental struggles to another person, I don’t want to be responsible for another persons whole life, I find the This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt moreover I will buy this thought of being pregnant repulsive (for me), and I never seen a baby or child that I thought was cute. I know I’d be a good father but I don’t want to do it on my own. I had a partner of 11 years that I thought had potential but nope. It’s not life goal for me though so it’s not like a need for me. I just know the family structure I would want and if I don’t have it then it’s not happening. The economy/job market. I cannot guarantee that I can give a child a decent life, let alone a good life. I make 39k a year and I’m check to check due to HCOL and inflation. Body dysmorphia. I’ve always had body issues, for a time an ED. If I got pregnant, I would need to be in therapy the whole time just to make sure we both stay safe and healthy.
Genetics. My family has a lot of problems. History of drinking and substance abuse, mental illness, bad skin, bad teeth, and I’m a cancer survivor. It’s enough that I would be concerned of passing on any issues My reason is – children are supposed to be raised by people 50 – 60 yo, not by people in their 20ties. As long as children are raised by young parents I don’t see a point in having kids – I am young and I value my time and money far more than children. I don’t have the This Is My Hanukkah White Elephan Ugly Hanukkah shirt moreover I will buy this desire to have children. My life wouldn’t be better with children. I want to come home from work and do whatever I want to do and not continuing to work (childcare). Sport, concerts, traveling, meeting friends whenever I want and not when I have a babysitter, cinema etc… Although I am not really sure yet, my main reason for objection is because I have gone through so much (generational) trauma, I don’t want to burden my hypothetical children with those kinds of things. Even though I put a lot of time and effort in learning to deal with things my parents didn’t want to deal with, and situations I’d rather have avoided… I would hate to be the reason my kids would feel as lost, confused and lonely as I’ve always felt. Especially considering the fact that I can see it with relatives as well. They try so hard, and still their children are subjected to things a child shouldn’t have to be dealing with. It breaks my heart. I wouldn’t want that for anyone. So until I don’t feel like I am at a good enough place to take care of someone else unconditionally, I won’t be a parent anytime soon.

1. Length is measured from the highest point on the collar down to the bottom hem. 2. Width is measured across the body of the shirt under the armpits, one way. 3. Sleeves are measured from center back to hem.