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Not even prenups are helping as lots of judges just throw them away and charge alimony regardless. I had a squad mate commit suicide for losing everything he had in a divorce and not being allowed to see his kid. I vowed never to marry at his funeral (which his ex and kid didn’t even go…) as long as this stupid laws are in place. If it means I die alone, so be it, better alone than wishing I was. *sees the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt and by the same token and making $200K a year* [in George Costanza voice] Do you want to get married? Do you want to get married to me right now!? Let’s go, baby!!! I see most relationships fail and people lose money and their partner trys to screw them over as much as possible because they are pissed off lol Personally I don’t think marriage is important . And I guess reading the other comments , thankfully they don’t either.

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We both feel like there doesn’t need to be any external validation of our relationship , to us the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt and by the same token and everyday and cherishing every moment is what matters. I think also us discussing within the first 2 years of our relationship our thoughts and values on marriage and family really helped too. You can’t tell where a relationship will go. But I think having those discussions early on ( but not too early lol) really helps. There was a point where my partner was stressed after a year of us dating thinking he had to buy a ring for me becuase that’s what most girls want. And he didn’t know what to do. Valnetines day was around the corner and by chance I brought up that I don’t want any jewelery for valentines day , I think jewelery is dumb . I said I just wanted pizza or sushi and an adventure.
That was such a relief to him to hear that I didn’t want that kind of stuff. And that conversation carried on to not caring for rings or marriage. After dating 9 women over 20 years I married my wife because she made me happy and – for a while – I made her happy. The others didn’t in a variety of ways; having other fellas on the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt and by the same token and back burner, being conflicted about being sexually attractive, too controlling, not wanting a monogomous relationship, not wanting kuds, too self-centred, not connecting sexually (despite attraction), considering me beneath her. There’s no theme (apart maybe from a frequent asymmetry in the effort and interest in sex – not sure if I am highly sexed, bad in bed or unlucky), each was different.

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For context: I’m a 34 y.o. man living with a 34 y.o. woman and 2 step daughters for 5 years now. We live in another country. Getting married would mean a real hell of paperwork and road trips to our home country and back. Since these procedures can take years and cost a lot, there’s no point. So for me personally marriage means nothing. It’s actually more of a problem than a benefit. If you’re committed, the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt and by the same token and rest doesn’t matter. The thing that made me want to marry my ex (she said no) was that I felt so at ease with her that I wanted to be the best version of myself. I kept trying and trying to get better — and I did. But she lived in another country, one where I didn’t speak the language. Moving to her was the one thing I’d always told her I wouldn’t do because I didn’t speak the language. There’s a difference between being willing to learn it, which I was — and moving to a country where I was going to be wholly dependent upon her for everything.
Her decision contributed to a tailspin in my life, one from which I’m just now starting to recover. It’s been seven years. I knew I wanted to marry her, and the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt and by the same token and only way I’ve been able to move on is to take solace that I gave her everything I possibly could without sacrificing myself, who I was. I had wanted to propose, but I didn’t want to deal with the wedding as I had no male friends to be in my wedding party, as I was not allowed to maintain those. You know? Reading through this thread and your responses to me. It occurs to me….you seem very “set” in your ways. You seem quite rigid in thought. Not meaning to be mean, but, are you a “my way or the highway” type?? Maybe men see you as uncompromising? Inflexible? Always needing things to be your way? Often parents, especially decent single parents who had a hard time of it, are very focussed, seem “bossy” and hard core organised. That’s sort of necessary to be a good parent…. BUT… for a man around 30, looking for a life partner? It’s just too much. He’d perhaps see you as his “bossy mother” then a woman he can marry & have fun & be light hearted with.
Seems you never demanded that level of commitment. Also men want to protect and provide and maybe you don’t need either. Maybe it’s less about these men (not) wanting to marry you and more about you not being clear that marriage is a priority for you. We all have needs and it’s only fair to our partner if we communicate those needs. Maybe you’ll find through that conversation that they have an unmet need, and that may be the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this difference in them being ready to take your relationship to the next level. I think you have to know the person’s view on marriage first. Some people aren’t sure they want to be married or maybe haven’t thought about it much. I think men know pretty early on when the woman is somebody they can see themselves grow old with and if she is marriage oriented they will propose because they don’t want to loose her to nobody because she is special to them. I’ve heard that men like somebody who makes them feel respected and appreciated Men are different as women are and all the same in certain ways. You are asking what are men looking for and that is coming from a desperate place. Desperation chases away ALL people regardless of gender. You need to focus on yourself. Your hobbies. Your life. Make yourself happy. Marriage is forever and a LOT of work. Even with those who are our soul mates or perfect pair. It never stops being work. It’s about loving and respecting and supporting and nurturing and turning on the other person. FOR LIFE. it’s a massive commitment and undertaking and I promise you, you do NOT want to marry just anyone. Men in general want a woman who is their own person. A woman who is feminine. A woman that shares their hopes and dreams and goals. A couple must have shared goals or it won’t work out. You can have different interests but if he wants to live in the country and you hate the country that isn’t going to be a good match. Make a list of all the things you care about that have NOTHING to do with weddings or marriage and then figure out who you really are. From there you can see who is a good match with you. Marriage shouldn’t be the goal because once you’re married you are still you and he is still him. Finish raising your child and work on yourself. I’m sure that God will give you your husband when the time is right. Edited to add: stop giving husband privileges and rights to boyfriends or freeloaders. Never ever ever EVER move a man in and take care of him. That is literally the opposite of the man you want AND the opposite of the man that will want to marry you. Good healthy strong “normal” men don’t care how much money you have etc THEY will naturally want to provide for YOU. You trying to provide for them will attract feminine men, lazy men, Peter-pan syndrom men etc. please work on yourself and discover why you’re attracting the wrong men AND allowing them to use you.
The truth is, a lot of men are losing interest in marriage entirely. This was on the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this rise even before the manosphere and Andrew Tate. And this view is increasing in popularity at an exponential rate. Whether you agree with it or not, whether it offends you or not, there is a not-insubstantial and growing group of men who refuse to marry. They don’t see if as a benefit but an outdated institution that made sense back in the day but not longer does. This model is especially being embraced in Europe. It’s very possible the men you date believe this. On a personal level, I believe it is outdated and almost all of my male freinds do (even the married ones who only married due to ultimatums). I know there is a lot of instinctual repulsion about this from some people, but the no-marriage group is growing exponentially. It could be youre just dating guys who hold these same feelings.
Maybe you should spend more time on finding your partner, you have all my blessings. Speaking from my own experience, a great partner will uplift your life, maybe there is someone here in this group. I see 18.000 people online and 4.4mln members. Maybe there is a man brave enough to send you a message. 🙂 Have a wonderful weekend. Most men see marriage as a next life step to take once they’re “ready” and everything like finances is in order. Look at the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this old Twitter thread going around before asking “Most men don’t marry the woman they love(d) the most. They marry the woman that is around when they are ready to marry”. The responses are pretty telling I hate to say it, but it’s 100% the fact that you are a single mother. Most men who are looking to get married aren’t trying to get married to someone with a kid. They are trying to start a family of their own. Maybe look for a single Dad or divorcee etc… usually people try to get married before kids not after.
If it makes you feel any better, I felt the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this same way. It was especially hard after leaving my last long-term relationship (5 years) at age 34, as I knew I also wanted kids one day. 8 months later I met the man whom I have been happily married to for 15 years. It was completely different from my previous relationships from the start. We started talking about marriage about 3 months in, got engaged after 6 months and married a year after that. I look back at my previous long term relationships and am grateful I didn’t marry them. I know I would not have been as happy with them as I am now. I needed those relationships to learn more about what I wanted and valued in a relationship. Also, I deliberately went on dating sites that positioned themselves for serious daters. I don’t know what the dating landscape is like today but you’re unlikely to find someone who is also looking to marry on some of the more popular sites. Maybe also look into matchmaking services of some kind?
I wish you much love and happiness for your future. And remember, it’s not you, it’s them. They were not the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this right life partner for you, he is still out there. 266 more repliesI don’t personally hold the institution of marriage in high regard to begin with, but if I did – I wouldn’t be looking for all the things you listed. I would be looking for a partner. As in actual partnership. As in complimenting eachother in all the ways that matter – our characters, our goals, our motivations, our interests, maybe our politics, etc. I’m not looking for a mother or a maid. I’m not looking for a breadwinner. I’m not looking for “arm candy”. I’m not looking to check off the box “I have a wife”. I’m looking for a compliment to my life. I suspect a lot of guys in their 30s are at a similar point where they understand well enough what to look for in someone who compliments them, and so a partner who seems to care more about the material parts of having a marriage, having money, having a homemaker just might not suit the wants of the guys around you.
IMO I’d be asking why you want to be married so badly. Marriage for its own sake isn’t a meaningful goal, for me, or for many guys. When you phrase it the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this way you have, it sounds like you just want to check the box and don’t care what guy does it for you – which is going to be a turn off for some. A good idea could be to “Interview” your exes, ask them how they felt being with you, and if you could have done some things differently. I had 4 long term relationships with very short breaks in between from high school onwards. In the case of my high school/university gf I didn’t really consider proposing due to age, but it was something I did give thought to for the other 3. In each case there was just something missing in each relationship that not only kept me from wanting to marry her, it wound up ending the relationship. Each time I learned more about what I did and didn’t want in a partner, what personality traits I was compatible with and would be compatible with me, and got a better idea about what I wanted to do with my life. After a 2 year break from dating, I hooked up with a girl at a wedding. After going out a couple of times and getting to know her, it turned out that she checked almost all of the boxes. We dated for 2 years, and have been married for the next 25. If we’d have met in our early 20’s we probably would have dated, but even if we did I kind of doubt we would have gotten married because I didn’t really know what I wanted back then, and wasn’t a very good partner myself.
I live in Sweden and 4 and a half years ago I met my wife in Serbia. We had long distance but I went there often. With each interaction with her I knew more and felt that I wanted to marry her, it was mutual and it felt natural. After 2 years I proposed but knew way before that I would eventually do it. My point is, I knew almost after 6 months that I could propose, but waited for other reasons. When you date the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this relationship builds up and it should not take many years imo if you see yourself with that person forever. (A) Ask your former bfs. And press for every reason – they may not want to tell you to spare your feelings. Tell them hurting you now with the truth is better than you not knowing. Then thank them – because you may want to go back with follow-up questions. (B) Next time you want to marry a guy, ask him. Not as “romantic”, but you’ll get your answer a lot sooner than 4/5/6 years.
(C) If you’re online dating, put in your profile that you’re not interested in a long term bf/gf relationship and that you want to get married. Some people are not into marriage as well. Loving each other and spending life together works well without telling a priest or the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this government. I personally think marriage is just a bit overromanticised. Did you talk to these long term partners about marriage? Maybe they thought you were happy not being married. Making $200k means you are able to be independent. Maybe they thought you didn’t want marriage. Maybe there’s something you are saying/doing that made multiple men think you didn’t want it. Maybe other women are more likely to talk about wanting it, whereas you were maybe specifically not mentioning it, thinking it should be totally the man’s idea.
I got married almost 30 years ago. I know we talked about it before he proposed, but I honestly can’t remember who first brought it up or how it came up. Hmm, I don’t know anything about you, and I can only tell you what mattered most to me. For the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this record, I (56M) have been married for almost 30 years, so bear this in mind as well. I proposed to my now-wife because she was first and foremost a very good friend & was committed to making our relationship work. I tend to be choosy about friends in the first place: Are they intelligent? Kind? Witty? Sane? Stable? Responsible? Empathic? Ethical? The bar is higher for marriage material: Do I sincerely believe this person loves and respects me for who I really am, not just whatever I can provide?
I honestly don’t care about the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this homemaking. I cook, clean, do whatever to help out, in order to strengthen the partnership. (Slavery has long since been abolished, thanks, and I wouldn’t be in that market anyway.) So, you have plenty of time. Choose wisely, never settle, choose not to just “get married”. There are plenty of good men out there, and many (like myself) who aren’t afraid of the commitment. It’s just a matter of finding the guy who’s right for you. Girl, I have the same thought I have to tell you the truth. I am 36 years old. Independent I run my own life and I’m not tooting my own horn but I have taken advantage of modern age beauty products and I look good so I’ve never really figured it out. Also I have a personality I’m fine I’m fabulous. I am like THE wife material although I’m sort of a little freaky and I’m kind of sassy because I’m very independent lol if I could find a man strong enough to submit to I would but usually I’m the one creating ideas to make them feel like they’re leading I don’t even need that But sometimes marriage makes more sense like, why am I being taxed for being single? What the fuck ? And at my income I would love a little tax stipend lol.
I would personally never want to be married unless there was some technicality forcing me to. I see it as a completely unnecessary expense and I already do so much to avoid wasting my hard earned money. I mean we can certainly have a nice party for family and friends and celebrate our love, but not that huge thing with hundreds of guests and fancy dinner and all that, I just think it is awful. And I don’t ever want to put myself in a position where a breakup will cause me to lose half of my fortune. No thanks. If the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this relationship is long term but no proposal it usually means there’s a red flag that isn’t a deal breaker for dating but is for marriage. If marriage is your goal, learning how to pour into your partner goes a long way. You can both be secure financially, emotionally, spiritually, but if you don’t pour into your partner, it’s just a “friendship”. What I mean is have any of your previous relationships ever spoke the words “I love her so much, she’s made me a better person for x y and z”!?! You don’t have to change someone or change for someone, but you have to treat the relationship like it’s a living breathing thing. It may be on the verge of death one day but your procurement and delicate touch keeps it alive and flourishing. When you can honestly say you do that for someone and vice versa, you should just know. If you can’t find that, don’t rush it and push through for a marriage. Isn’t worth it.
Any chance you are a non neuro typical female like me? No reason I ask other than I can give my perspective and you were a little black and white in your question. Men are simple creatures but you do have some baggage. How do you overcome this baggage? How are you in the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this bedroom? Men can get past some imperfections if you blow their mind in the bedroom. If you dont define the relationship from the very start… youre bound to end up in this modern “F buddy” “situationship” that has taken over society basically around the world since the internet and social media became a thing. When you meet a guy on Tinder (or wherever youre meeting them) tell them from the start youre dating with the intention of getting married. No youre not looking for sex. No youre not looking for FWB…. You want to get married.
Trust me, theres plenty of men looking for a good woman to marry. Just be clear from the Pigeons Playing Ping Pong Madison Cube Garden Nov 31 2025 New York, NY Show shirt Furthermore, I will do this start and you can weed through tons of guys quickly and find a good one. A while ago someone said it has nothing to do with the woman, and everything to do with whether a man is ready to marry or not. If he’s ready, he’ll literally pick any random woman he’s with at the time. Ladies, please do not waste your life waiting for him to be ready or trying to turn yourself into the woman he wants to marry. Hard to put into words. My wife just makes me feel like I never need anything else as long as I have her around. The idea of spending every day with her for the rest of my life makes me deeply happy in a way that doesn’t wear off. Sorry if this sounds too blunt but, I think this way of thinking is ultimately flawed. Based on the phrasing of the question, I get the sense there’s an element of what can I do to get a man to marry me?

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