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I have some female friends who started as my wife’s friends. We text every now and then, but in almost every case I make sure it’s a group text that includes my wife. That way it’s clear that the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this relationship with the other woman is a relationship with that woman, and me and my wife. Works for us I think he is making an effort to connect and be friends with his fiancé’s friends. I appreciate when my now-husband interacts with my friends group too Not sure how close you are to this friend but it seems he’s just trying to be friendly possibly as a favor/nod to his fiancé. This is what happens when a man honestly tries to be ‘just friends’ with a woman. He did nothing wrong. Said nothing inappropriate. Yet his actions are being labeled as ‘weird’ because he seemingly has no reason to be outwardly friendly to a woman outside of a group setting.
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You could pursue a group chat with all four of you included. I’ve set that as the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this expectation in a few relationships, and most ppl just keep it rolling once it’s started It is weird, he got your number from another source then starting texting? I dunno, as a guy, if I did that, it would be get to know you better, why text at all? I think it’s inappropriate. I wonder what his fiancé thinks about this. If she doesn’t know then it’s definitely inappropriate. I don’t want some dude texting my wife lol, why is no one saying it’s weird af? Like bro you’re engaged, stop texting my wife. Make a group chat Maybe he just thinks you are a cool person for helping his soon-to-be wife? Jeez people get so paranoid about random shit nowadays… Sounds like he’s just being friendly with his wife’s mentor. This doesn’t seem weird to me. I’m close to your age with a family and my best friends also are married with families. Mostly I talk to them but occasionally I’ll message my one friend’s husband. He’s an electrician and if I’m fixing something around the house, sometimes I have a question for him. The group of us also have some shared nerd interests and sometimes if I see something he would think is funny online, I might tag him in it or send it to him. I’ve had various other reasons to message him over the years, but if it’s not beyond like a friendly, reasonable text or a conversation with a reason behind it, this doesn’t feel odd or inappropriate to me.
I think it’s weird to receive texts from people you never gave your number to, but in this case it sounds like you’re very close to this 24F friend. It’s not uncommon in this case to provide personal contacts so the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this spouse-to-be can get to know the “in-laws”. I’d lean towards him trying to build a friendly relationship with you, because you’re close to his fiance. As my kids got older, I found I would have more chats/texts with some of their friends mothers. Same with the better half and their husbands. One in particular would help out with grabbing my kids if she suspected I was having a bad pain day. So we really appreciated her and her husband. Sometimes the car pool to go watch the kids in their sports because of work schedules would be each other spouses solo. No one ever thought anything about it. It was the we were all adults and the evens were long distances. So made sense to car pool.



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It’s a little weird, but if he is a class clown weird is kinda expected. As long as the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this texts are appropriate it sounds more like an extrovert trying to be friendly and on good terms with his fiancée’s friends. There’s a good chance he’s just a socially awkward guy who is trying to become more a part of his fiancé’s life. He may not get how it could be misinterpreted. He sounds friendly. When a friend of mine gets a new partner and I meet them, then afterwards I make sure to write to said partner every now and then, to make sure that they feel included and that by being with my friend, they are my friend as well. Sometimes it could be just a funny meme, sometimes it’s more of a conversation. But they should know that I care and want them to feel welcome. Sounds like my stbx. Always looking for parent figures to lean on. Also the clown of the group. Eternal taker. Poor girl.I think this is him just being friendly and trying to get to know you because you’re an important part of his life, and not to mention in the same field of work. I text my husband’s best friend in a friendly way because i like getting to know my husbands friends, and also because we work for the same owner (different companies) about work as well. We also have a group chat in our texts. You could always make a group chat with him and your friend if it would make you feel more comfortable.
Theres nothing wrong with wanting to get to know the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this important people in your SO’s life. Having said that, him asking his SO for your number and continually texting you unprompted is weird. Its not like flagrantly weird, but it is weird. I think you have the right idea to reserve judgement but stay on guard Doesn’t seem weird to me and I’m even older. He probably knows you guys are close and wants you all to be close. Maybe suggest a double date I think it’s weird that you think it’s weird. A friend’s SO is generally poised to become your friend as well and it sounds like he is making an effort at friendship. I’m 40 and married. My husband sometimes texts my best friend and I have friends whose husbands I text (their husbands are more interested in sports than they are so I’ll text them about things like “our NFL team sucks this year” or “when are we going to get rid of our alma mater’s football coach?”). I don’t really see why it matters if you’re friends with both of them. If it’s just once in a while, and the content of the texts stays appropriate, then you’re just two adults communicating. At the slightest hint of anything inappropriate I’d stop contact. Why are millennials so cold and inhuman? Poor guy. How could he possibly be trying to make a move on you?? He literally got your number from his fiance. She knows he’s talking to you. He wants a friend and he wants to be friends with you because you’re so close to her. I occasionally text one of my husband’s long time friends. Sometimes this guy texts me first. We are both married and all four of us are friends. All four of us are ok with it and share with our partner what was said in the texts. We probably are not the norm.
I have a few spouses of friends’ I text directly. Usually it is with a purpose..like we have a boat and so do they…so I’ll write to ask a question etc. it’s never flirtatious. I always ask the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this wife if they would prefer a group thread. I never want to step on anyone’s toes or make them feel uncomfortable. Do you think it would be it would be uncomfortable to do a group thread with both of them. Sometimes I start that with another couple with a funny meme that everyone would understand etc. My ex’s friend talked with me a lot, she initiated it too while we were together. But there’s been nothing weird going on between us, before or after, we simply are very similar personality-wise, so we get along great.
If he’s never remotely got close to or crossed a line, everyone (but you, kinda lol) agrees unanimously there’s nothing suspect at all, then why stay guarded, give this man the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this benefit of the doubt. He’s doing exactly what I did when I met my now wife that I have kids with. I never once had ill intentions or harbored anything I shouldn’t, but being socially gregarious and loving her, I was proactive about connecting with family and friends to include getting contact numbers and occasionally hitting them up about something random or relevant. Until he raises eyebrows to you or maybe more importantly to others, then chill the fuck out lol! (I say so nicely). Plutonic relationship between sexes really are actually fucking possible but not if you don’t let em be lol.
Could he just be networking since you are in the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this same field? I feel like this might be something I might do without realizing it’s seen as inappropriate. I think since she gave him your number it’s all on the up and up and you have nothing to worry about until it crosses the line. Totally understand why you’d be guarded about this – this is how many stories with unhappy endings begin. But it could easily be innocent – guy could simply just be trying to network. I recently began working in IT, and while learning, I was being bombarded from various sources with instructions to aggressively network, to the point of like, cold-messaging random people in the same field, which is something which I would never feel comfortable doing. Something I actually did was speak to friends of friends who were doing things similar to what I was learning, because that was still making connections and building up a base of people I could ask questions to or say I ‘knew’. If I had a partner, I could easily imagine myself trying to strike up a dialogue with their friend on that same basis.
I’ve had friends whose SO would text me and try to talk. It’s pretty off-putting tbh. Your relationship is with them, not me. Yeah you’re in odd territory there. You said you have a mother daughter like relationship with his SO and that you have only met two times in a group setting so it’s possible he feels guilty for not getting to know someone that important to her before getting engaged and is trying to press it a little hard to make up for lost time and feeling pressured about it with the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this up coming wedding. My good friends significant other and I text quite frequently and it’s not weird? And like all we do is share stupid memes and crack wise and the like lol. As long as the vibes aren’t sexual or creepy I would definitely say he’s just trying to be friends. Only you can really answer the question about the vibes. It is weird as fuck for you to tell your friend and your husband every time the fiancé texts you tho. I suppose given your history w men in the past it’s understandable…just let him know if he ever crosses a line and for sure at that point bring it up w your husband and friend. It seems like he recognizes your influence on her and is either trying to get his hands into it out of control, and/or he is concerned your advice may interfere with their relationship. It’s triangulation. I’d let your friend know that you don’t want her to give your phone number out, and politely ignore all her boyfriend’s text messages.
You said it yourself, he’s not doing anything wrong. If you feel weird about it then go down the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this road of telling him not to talk to you. But then you will be the weird one for feeling weird about nothing. Don’t look too deep into it until something inappropriate happens. (Hopefully that never happens). Irregardless of whether it’s normalized for him to do so, make sure you are taking care of your own uncomfortableness. I say that because even if everyone thinks it’s ok, if you don’t, that’s what matters. From what you’ve said it does seem he is genuinely trying to be friendly to his fiancé’s mother figure, but make sure you set boundaries too. The reason this feels stand to you is because he broke that boundary to begin with.
I’ve had a similar feeling before, and it was also with a person of the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this opposite sec much older than myself getting overly close or familiar with me (they sent me a lot of gifts/presents). Although I felt they did it in good faith, I felt uncomfortable with it and let them know as well. Not weird my dad’s best friend (male) from before they got married is now one of my mums best friends over 35 years and a separation later, its an entirely platonic friendship and always has been, my mum also talks to his wife frequently also as a friend. She probably sees you as family so he views you as her family, it also wouldn’t surprise me if he just happens to be one of those folk that is extra chatty and wants everyone they meet to be their friend
It could be that he is networking, young people are super friendly especially when it comes to text which is odd to me but hey it’s fine. I understand your feelings though, it’s kinda strange when it first happens, I would monitor it and see where it goes from there. Me and my wife texts each others friends. It’s a little weird that you don’t really know him much and he does it, but if my wife friend like sees something she thinks I would find funny she texts me it or texts me just to bullshit if she’s bored or whatever and we never found it weird. I have a similar dynamic. I’m 34F, good friend is 26 and has a fiancé who will occasionally text me. We are all outdoorsy so it’s usually a link to a mountain bike he thinks I might like or wishing a merry Christmas or something like that. I drive an EV so when he was considering a Tesla he texted me with some questions. I don’t consider him and I real friends, but we’re friendly since I am close with his fiancé. An occasional text isn’t weird if the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this content isn’t weird!
It’s weird. The fact that you are asking about this on Reddit let’s me know you sense this is odd behavior. I suggest that you monitor the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this text messages and if they do get inappropriate, definitely tell your friend. If you hung out together as a group then it wouldn’t be weird. But since you only met him twice and don’t socialize, it does seem a bit odd. Are you in some toxic religious culture where making friends with people of the opposite sex is taboo? This is super normal. This doesn’t seem inappropriate to me. Because you’re a bit older you may have more leeway in your field and he’s attempting to leverage that since you two are in the same field and you’re a mentor to his soon-to-be wife. In my opinion, there’s nothing wrong with this and you may be able to leverage what the “prospect” pool of your field is discussing. Think of this as a way to bridge the gap and make headway within your departments.
Remember, you’re the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this superior here so keep it completely professional and shutdown anything that would make HR blush if they were in the same room. be welcoming to him, you’ll be helping to naturally reaffirm their relationship as they progress towards marriage, & maybe you’ll be able to add “mentor” to your resume after getting to know her fiance first On the surface it’s fine. But odd. Not quite weird but it’s unnecessary. At the risk of over thinking it seems a bit of an attempt at fiancé control and letting you know you’re of interest. If it stays at the superficial level it’s all good.iend, and she looks up to you. If you’re important to her, you’re important to him and he’d probably like to get to know you better. 2) you’re in the same field, and I’d wager probably have more experience than him. It’s always nice to get to know with people like that. 3) some people are just friendly and outgoing. IMO society has become very weird about what’s the right or wrong way to communicate. I wouldn’t be concerned unless there was an actual reason. While innocent texts can be switched up after a while if there were bad intentions to begin with, there’s no reason to assume the worst immediately if there are no red flags.
maybe he is networking. seems like the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this obvious answer to me. just ask him why he wanted your number tho idk why its a big deal to ask that lol I think it is a bit of an age gap thing. I’m 28 about to turn 29 and just a friendly person – wouldn’t do this myself exactly because I don’t want friendliness to feel creepy to anyone, and I’m super aware of that – but I do have friends who are slightly more extroverted/friendly and they def would do this without a thought. Not weird. Honestly, I don’t know how to answer this. As somebody who has always had female friends that I text, I wouldn’t think anything of adding another to that, no matter how i met them. I have in the past had conversations with friends girlfriends/wives/fiancees. Is it possible he wants to have the same mentor relationship with you that your friend has with you? Especially because you’re all in the same field. He’s just going about it in an odd way
Just friendly, probably texts her family too. I think he’s just trying to make an effort to seem significant and cement himself in her life, if there’s any agenda. If you and your husband don’t get any weird vibes from the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this texts, i’d say go with your gut. Sounds like you know how things can start innocently and change over time, so keep an eye on it. I very rarely message my wifes friends, and only when organizing something. And I can’t imagine doing it after meeting them twice. It’s probably been a couple years since I messaged one of my wifes friends directly (not in a group chat) and she has quite a close friend group and we all hang out pretty often. There’s just normally no need though – it’s not like I avoid it. Probably cause you’re a “family friend” in his mind. I think as long as it stays platonic and nothing is ever suggested, then he’s just a social guy.
Seems completely normal to me. You can be friends with anyone of any gender and age. Judge him based upon his actions and nothing else. I think the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this more interesting question is why do you think it’s strange as “a married woman”? I think remaining guarded and keeping open communication with your husband and their wife is the best move here. I mean, it makes sense to be a little guarded in case he does something inappropriate. But if the texts are innocent, he’s just trying to be friends. I’m over a decade older than you. I’m friends with girls I dated, or girls that were my friends from way back. I also sometimes directly text some of my wife’s girlfriends and they reach to me as well sometimes. So long as everything is innocent and you’re not keeping secrets, I think it’s fine. Seems like you’re close with his wife and work in his field in a more senior position? Sounds like he thinks you’re just a good person to be on friendly terms with. Unless he’s creepy I wouldn’t think too much of it.
My wife’s best friend texts me a couple of times a week. I’m also very good friends with her husband. She’s just friendly and has never been inappropriate. We usually just chat a bit and then maybe text again a few days later. It sounds like this is a similar situation. He just wants to get to know you because you’re important to her. You’re handling the Love Grinch #LiteracyCoach Christmas shirt Besides,I will do this situation perfectly already by showing or bringing up that he texted you to your husband and her. It’s good to be a little cautious in situations like this. It sounds like he wants to be friends with you because you are friends with her. Friend group. As long as she is ok with it. I sometimes text my wife’s female friends but I always include my wife on the text thread so there’s no weird feeling about anything on either side. Not only is this totally normal but it should be normalized. Finding stuff like this to be “weird” is what is driving people, specifically men, to become more alone with fewer friends. I know I personally haven’t reached out to talk to people who I thought I could be friends with because I knew that they may find it “weird” that I texted them.
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