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It is one of the Happy Valentines Day Three Leopard And Plaid Hearts Shirt Additionally,I will love this few strengths of my malfunctioning brain, but it took a long time for me to realise that this wasn’t a skill available to everyone. As such, I wasn’t an effective trainer to new techs because I was skipping entire steps that would be required for everyone else as they just aren’t necessary for me. However, like your wife, I’m also terrible at everyday tasks. I often don’t think to do them until requested, only remember that I said I’d do them as my flatmate walks in the door, and get paralyzed by seemingly minor hurdles (“where does this pan go?” “Should I clean this up, it looks like my flatmate was using it?”). While we (including myself) all too easily reduce people to “is or is not intelligent” – the truth of the matter is more complicated. As you may already be aware, there are many different kinds of intelligence: logical-mathematical, spatial, inter- and intra-personal, etc. You may also be aware of the push to keep working out your brain as you get older (by doing puzzles and the like) so that it doesn’t degrade over time. The justification translates pretty easily: the brain is a muscle, muscles need to be used or they atrophy.
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I’ve known VERY intelligent people who knew they were intelligent. It’s just that they could admit when they didn’t know something, or would happily admit gaps in their knowledge, and readily sought out new information. I have met so many people who swear they know everything and people are below them. A lot of “smart people” swear they are intelligent, but will ask questions like “was the Happy Valentines Day Three Leopard And Plaid Hearts Shirt Additionally,I will love this movie Julius Caesar made when he was alive?” That was a legitimate question. She was top of her class and swore that everyone else was stupid. My point isn’t that intelligent people aren’t smart or know their intellect. It’s that a lot of smart people who worked really hard are not exactly intelligent people. They also love to proclaim they are the most intelligent person in the room. Smart people can be easily distracted by other thought. So she may be putting less thought into what she’s doing.
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We used to call it book smart and street smart. Some people are better academically but not with real life tasks. Intelligence is separate from learning. Being able to complete tasks you are told to, follow instructions, etc. all bode well for education based performance at the Happy Valentines Day Three Leopard And Plaid Hearts Shirt Additionally,I will love this lower levels. Intelligence is divided into what you were born with and what your capacity is. Being smart relates to processing speed. You can do well in school and be no where near as smart or as intelligent as the person who flunks out. I mean literally our history is filled with what we deem genius’s and there is a trend of poor academic performance amongst nearly all of them. Usually because they see things differently and it doesn’t follow the educators instruction. Higher levels of education such as a doctorate etc do require a certain baseline of critical thinking skills but then again often someone is only really great at that one thing they put all their focus in.
I’m good at math and have a PhD in stats. I’ve always done extremely well in academics. Do not ask me to read a map, navigate anywhere, or visualize something in my head because we will get lost and I’ve tried learning but it just isn’t happening. I’m also slower than average at most daily tasks but I don’t care as long as they get done. And I’ll be the Happy Valentines Day Three Leopard And Plaid Hearts Shirt Additionally,I will love this first to admit that I’m one of the dumbest people I know. Just because I have a bunch of degrees doesn’t mean I’m smarter than anyone else. There’s different types of measurable intelligence and one isn’t better than the other. Yeah I love economics, accounting and other applied mathematics but I am completely useless at IT or even programming the clock on the range. It’s been 2.3 hours ahead for months now Book smarts and being able to study and retain knowledge can be very different to ability to learn and do things hands on. I’ve known quite a few very intelligent people who amaze me that they could make it through the day without help. On the flip side I’ve also known many people who were not great students but they excelled at other areas such as construction/craft/trade work, music, art, etc.
On school standards though that’s another story. School districts vary drastically. I’ve seen it with my kids school district versus my step kids. My step kids have hardly any homework and when they do it’s very simple. My kids have homework everyday and it looks almost a year ahead of what my step kids bring home. As a former “Gifted KidTM”, many folks with neurodivergent traits (like ADHD in my case) meant we could excel at academics, but struggle with executive function or other things. This means I can research and write a 10 page paper on advanced philosophy in a day or solve orbital mechanics for black holes, but when I need to fold the Happy Valentines Day Three Leopard And Plaid Hearts Shirt Additionally,I will love this laundry, I… don’t. While most neurodivergent traits are simply annoying to neurotypical folks at worst, if it starts affecting your marriage or her happiness, then both of you should get therapy. I have found therapy great for understanding how my wife or I might be bothering the other with a neurodivergent trait, and how we can work together to find balance in meeting each other’s needs. In a lot of neurodivergent spaces, there is a joke. You were an honor student in school, now you cant fo anything
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